What are the most common resolutions? Many involve a change in habit. People resolve to either stop or quit a certain behavior. According to surveys, the number one resolution is to lose weight. The phrasing of our resolutions is important because words such as stop, quit or lose do not motivate us. After all, who wants to be considered a quitter or a loser?
One resolution I made several years ago was to stop drinking soda. I was an avid soda drinker. Not only did I drink soda with every meal; it was my most common drink throughout the day. When adding up all of the supersized drinks, thirst-busters, and free refills, it wouldn’t be ridiculous to assume that I consumed at least 2 gallons of soda per day! Knowing that this habit was going to wreak havoc on my body in years to come, I decided it was time for a change. So when the next New Year rolled around, I resolved to quit drinking soda. My first attempt lasted 3 months. The next attempt lasted 5 months. The next one, I only made it 3 weeks. It was not going well for me. I also noticed a trend in my soda relapses. Whenever I broke my soda resolution, I would go on a soda binge! Does this sound familiar?
Then along came a book entitled The Hidden Messages of Water by Dr. Masaru Emoto, a Japanese scholar. In his book, Dr. Emoto explores the consciousness of water as a spiritual being. While reading it, I began to think about the traditional beliefs of our Native people about water. So I began asking. I asked anyone who was older than me. I found out that different regions have different beliefs, but that there are commonalities.
Water is our greatest medicine. Within water is the physical and spiritual connection to all living matter and all of creation. Water carries the messages of the Creator. Water is sacred and every meal should be considered ceremonial. Water purifies our mind, body and spirit.
Water is the key to wellness.
In becoming more “water aware,” I noticed changes in my behavior. I spent more time in the water: swimming, sitting in the hot tub or participating in water ceremonies. I was starting to collect water from different lakes and rivers. I also noticed one unintentional and very positive habit. I was drinking more water. I began to drink water with all of my meals. I drank water when I got thirsty. Water became my morning drink. By drinking more water, I significantly reduced my soda intake. I went from drinking 2 gallons a day to about 24 ounces a month! The only time I do drink soda is when I go to the movies and I average about 2 movies a month. Most importantly, there are no more soda drinking binges.
What I have found is that when I focus more on getting rid of something (soda), I fail. When I focus more on wanting something (water), I am successful. When we focus on being more positive and proactive, we are more productive.
Try this! Instead of using the phrase “New Year’s resolution”, try saying “New Me Revolution!” Only people who take action can be revolutionary. Only decisive and intelligent beings can create meaningful change. In order to act differently, we must think differently.
Think for a minute. What are your traditional tribal teachings about food, fitness, finances and fun? If you applied these teachings to your belief system, wouldn’t that be revolutionary for you?
And to those of you who think you have broken your New Year’s resolutions after two weeks, keep this in mind. In the two weeks that you did go to the gym, or the two weeks that you did eat more veggies, or the two weeks that you did not use alcohol, I say congratulations! Two weeks being more healthy and well is a huge step. Continue to evolve. You are on your way to being that New You that you want to be!